


Misconceptions About Children and Grief
They don’t understand what has happened; they’re too young. Even the very young know when those around them are upset. Most understand more than adults realize. Going to the funeral would just upset them. Not being included in…

Grief…Feeling Your Way Through
Grief is a journey. You have been given a ticket for the jouney – – a ticket which you didn’t ask for, didn’t deserve, didn’t want. But the ticket has your name on it, and you must take the journey regardless. You may fear what’s ahead. You already know the…

How To Help Others Listen To Your Grief
“Please Listen!” When I ask you to listen to me and you start by giving advice, you have not done what I asked. When I ask you to listen to me and you begin by telling me why I shouldn’t feel that way, you are trampling on my feelings.

Cocoon of a Butterfly
“A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared. He stared and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through the little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress.
